Couple must be fit as well, not obese, and be active. Super spontaneous, don't do well with plans :) Just left 22 years of a commitment.... That's my philosophy.
However, I do have free reign to make as many female and trans female friends as I'd like. If I find you attractive I will say so. About me I love a group of men I like having a conversation and connection, makes everything else so much more intense.